Five Etiquette-ful Things that Make a Positive First Impression (2024)

Five Etiquette-ful Things that Make a Positive First Impression (1)

“You never get a second chance to make a good first impression” is a quote attributed to both Will Rogers and Oscar Wilde. Author, Mary Shelley, said, “The beginning is always today.” Ralph Blum, writer and cultural anthropologist, reminds us, too, that “Nothing is predestined. The obstacles of your past can become the gateways that lead to new beginning.”

How would you hope to leave a lasting impression of yourself with others? Whether you're aiming to land the job of your dreams or be accepted in a new circle of acquaintances, practice and planning will help put you at ease so that you present yourself with confidence and grace.

To make a positive first impression, there are five etiquette-ful things to strive to perfect: punctuality, appearance, handshake, smile, and conversation. You have ample opportunity to practice each of these every time you leave your home - wherever and whenever you are with other people.

Punctuality

To be respected, you must show respect. One way to show respect for someone is to be on time and, in fact, early. Your punctuality says to the person you're meeting that you understand the value of their time and are responsible enough not to take it for granted.

Showing up late, particularly for a first-time meeting, says to the other person, "I don't care that you made time to see me. You're not very important." This type of subliminal message does not bode well for those seeking employment.

Resolve to arrive in physical proximity to the occasion early enough to be ready to enter precisely on time whether you are meeting someone for a business or social occasion. It's proper not to ring your dinner host's doorbell prior to the time invited, as greeting you might take them away from important last-minute preparations.

Neat Appearance

Like it or not, the first time someone sees you, judgements are made. What do you hope the person seeing you thinks? Polished and professional? Neat and tidy?

We all want to be noticed for the right reasons. Consider the long-term effects of your appearance. Individuality is a wonderful thing, but a little reconsideration may be needed if it keeps you from getting where you want to be.

Practice giving some thought to your appearance. Is your clothing clean, wrinkle-free, and coordinated well? Your hair, facial expression, posture and stance all factor into your overall appearance and the impression you make.

A Good Handshake

When you first meet someone and shake that person’s hand, do you remember how it went? If you do, it likely was a bad handshake.

Getting it just right is an important part of a good first impression. Make eye contact, extend your right hand vertically and as the hands meet at the web junctures between thumb and first finger, clasp the other person's hand, and shake. Yes, the web touch is the heart of a great handshake

A handshake that is too firm says you may be nervous, even anxious, or that you are making a power move. And a handshake that is too loose and soft says you don't know what you're doing or that you have no interest in properly greeting this person. It's important that you practice shaking hands and remember what the perfect one feels like. Practice as often as possible so that handshaking is a natural part of saying hello.

A Warm smile

Many times, your smile is what stands out as making a first meeting most memorable. A warm smile makes you seem open to engaging with other people. It can comfort frayed nerves, ease tension, and is highly contagious (in a good way).

But the best of smiles are not just formed by your mouth. It shows in your eyes, too. The eyes are the windows to the soul, and if they are smiling, you appear happy, trustworthy, and confident. Look in a mirror and smile. What do you think?

Engaging conversation

Once you get someone's attention, you'll want to keep it. Conversation is the way to do this, and it usually begins with "hello." A kind, friendly tone of voice will engage almost anyone in conversation.

Practice conversing with people on the phone, while shopping, at the office, anywhere. Be pleasant but be discrete. You don't want to overshare, and you also don't want to come across as a gossip. The objective here is to become adept at beginning conversations.

More First Impression Preparations

Practicing the five elements of a positive first impression is a good start to actually making one. You can also do some "behind the scenes" preparations.

  • If you're attending an event where you'll meet many new people, know the purpose of the event, who is hosting and/or sponsoring the event, and who is attending. Find out as much information (discretely, of course) as you can so you know what to anticipate.
  • RSVP right away. This will make an immediate impression on your host.
  • Jot down on a notecard a list of conversation topics for the event you are attending. Having the card tucked away, you can release the fear of not knowing what to say, and being at ease you can take the lead in asking other people questions about themselves.
  • Always follow up with a proper thank-you note.

A first impression will many times be a lasting impression. Ensure you make yours a great one!

You may also enjoy reading . . .

How to Start a Conversation

The Art of the Handshake

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