Woman Loses Home, School Funds, And 7-Year Relationship After BF Finds Her Phone Messages (2024)

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After people learn that they’ve been cheated on, they are typically in a daze. Stunned, angry, sad, and struggling to process and accept what has happened.

So it’s no surprise that when a man who goes on Reddit by the nickname AdviceThrowAwayinny discovered that his girlfriend of seven years had been sleeping with someone else, his thoughts and emotions went on a rocky rollercoaster ride.

Eventually, he decided to kick her out. But the woman and both of their parents started telling him that he was making a mistake. So he made a post on the subreddit ‘Am I the [Jerk]?’ asking its members for advice.

This guy just discovered that his girlfriend of 7 years had been cheating on him

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So he kicked her out of their home

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Their parents started telling him that he’s making a mistake and that he needs to take her back

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Woman Loses Home, School Funds, And 7-Year Relationship After BF Finds Her Phone Messages (2)

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Another post taken from Reddit that is years old with a throw away account. Goddamnit BP I need closure!

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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017
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She broke his trust. She texted the ex. She slept with the ex. She wanted to go to school so quit her job. She moved in w him and together they had 7+ yrs as a couple. Now the ex has nothing to offer so no idea why she would boff him. And she lost the best of her life. A home. A man. A future. He's right to keep her away til it's proven for a fact he's the father or if she's smart she will end the pregnancy an restart her life with out the burden an trauma that will go on an into raising a kid with two separate parents. Yeah he will be a great dad. Priorities good. But it shouldn't be forced on someone because of a situation like this. Unfair to him and the kid. But not the ex who may or may not have her ex's kid and not ops. Don't hate on me for suggesting an abortion. It's always an option. Or adoption. If it's the ex guys an op has no obligations.

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She'd never do it as it's her only hold at this point to keep the OP in her life.

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The title should be "Woman Loses Home, School Funds, And 7-Year Relationship After BF Finds Out She Was Cheating On Him." To quote Eminem "What? You tripped, fell, and landed on his d!ck?"

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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017
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Another post taken from Reddit that is years old with a throw away account. Goddamnit BP I need closure!

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She broke his trust. She texted the ex. She slept with the ex. She wanted to go to school so quit her job. She moved in w him and together they had 7+ yrs as a couple. Now the ex has nothing to offer so no idea why she would boff him. And she lost the best of her life. A home. A man. A future. He's right to keep her away til it's proven for a fact he's the father or if she's smart she will end the pregnancy an restart her life with out the burden an trauma that will go on an into raising a kid with two separate parents. Yeah he will be a great dad. Priorities good. But it shouldn't be forced on someone because of a situation like this. Unfair to him and the kid. But not the ex who may or may not have her ex's kid and not ops. Don't hate on me for suggesting an abortion. It's always an option. Or adoption. If it's the ex guys an op has no obligations.

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She'd never do it as it's her only hold at this point to keep the OP in her life.

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The title should be "Woman Loses Home, School Funds, And 7-Year Relationship After BF Finds Out She Was Cheating On Him." To quote Eminem "What? You tripped, fell, and landed on his d!ck?"

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Can you rebuild trust in a relationship after cheating? It takes time, but it is possible to restore the trust that used to be in your relationship before you cheated. Taking responsibility, apologizing sincerely, being honest, and doing what it takes to help your partner trust you again are key to this process.

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