It's that time of the year again when children are starting to realize that Santa isn't real. Whether it be from a friend at school, or through other means, children will eventually find out about the truth. So what do you say? How do you explain this unfortunate news? The first step is to make sure your child knows he/she has not done anything wrong by learning the truth. It may seem difficult now, but in time they will understand why you told them and how much better off they are because of it!
Here are a few things you can say to help explain Santa's not-so-real existence:
"Some people believe in Santa, and some people don't. I believe in Santa, but I also know that he is not real."
"Santa is a symbol of Christmas. He represents giving and kindness. Even though he is not real, his spirit is alive in all of us who celebrate Christmas."
"Just because Santa isn't real doesn't mean that Christmas isn't still special. It's the time of year when we get together with our friends and family and celebrate love, happiness, and giving."
" Santa represents the good in all of us."
No matter what you say, it's important to be honest with your child. They deserve to know the truth, and they will appreciate your honesty in the long run. Be there for them as they process this information, and be open to answering any questions they may have. reassure them that even though Santa isn't real, Christmas is still a special time of year. And most importantly, remind them that you love them no matter what!
Happy Holidays!
Pontchartrain Pediatrics
