How to gift money

If you’re in the fortunate position to be able to help familymembers financially, you’re probably thinking about the best way to go about it.

Money is a sensitive topic to begin with. In our recentsurvey on family and finances, we discovered 56% of the people we asked were embarrassed to ask family for financial help.On top of money being an awkward subject, there are many other considerations to be made from tax obligations to fair share between family members.But fortunately, there areways to gift moneyto your loved ones that will make the whole process a lot easier and lessstressful.

Keep reading to find outhow to gift moneyto family or friends, what the tax implications are,and discover simple tips that makelife easier, including talking to an advisor.

Not many of us are used to talking about money.Recent researchshows 62% of parents would welcome guidance on how to make gifts and loans.As inexperienced as we may be in broaching the subject, having a good conversation beforehand is key to making sure everyone is on the same page and taken care of. Here is a simple step-by-step processto get you started:

Get prepared

First, get your thoughts organised by writing down a list of all the things youwish todiscuss with your family member or friend.Planning out the conversation beforehand is important, especially if yourfinancial giftis substantial, there are conditions you want to put forward,or just in case the conversation gets emotional. In any case, you’llhave a road map to help guide the conversation in the right direction.

Here are a fewthings to think about whengiving money as a gift:

How much moneydothey need and how much can you gift?
Will yourfinancial giftbe a recurringarrangement or is it a one-off?
What conditions, if any, do you want to put forward?
Whatshould happen if yourrelationship breaks downfor whatever reason?
Whatshould happenifeither one ofyouhave a change in yourfinancial circ*mstanceslater on?

Choose the right place and time

The setting is very importantfor a successful conversation. Find a quiet placewhere you are unlikely to be interruptedand make sure there is plenty of time available for an in-depth discussion.There is nothing worse than being rushed to finishoff such an important conversation.

Make it clear whether it’s a money gift or a loan

It may seem obvious to you, but it’s always better to make things clear. Whether you’re expecting to receive the money back at some point or it’s a cash gift with no strings attached, spell it out so everyone is on the same pageand there won’t be any confusionlater on.

Prepare the terms and conditions

Due to the personal relationship, many people think that it’s not necessary to draw up family loan agreements or conditions for acash gift. However, this is one of the most important things you can do to avoid confusionand even possibly conflict.Find out more about how to establish the ground rules with our guide onterms and conditions for lending money to family.

Be honest about concerns

There are considerations to be made on both sides of the conversation. Be open when it comes to your own concerns, but don’t forget to put yourself in your loved one’s shoes as well. Here are two handy articles that will help you see the big picture, from both perspectives:gifting money to family, but also what worries exist whenasking family for money.

Consider the tax implications

Tax may apply toa financialgift, so make sure you take inheritance tax rules into consideration when planning out afinancial giftfor your loved ones.Different rules apply to different family members and how much you give them is as important as when thecash giftis given. We put together an easy guide to help you find outhow much you can gift per yearand what the potential tax liabilities are. Read more in our article abouttax inheritancerules.

Keep notes

Lastly, don’t forget to write downtheimportant points that have come up during the conversation. This will help both of you, in case you want to revisit the details of your agreementor want to change themlater on.

Types ofcash gifts

Differentconsiderations need to be madedepending on what thefinancial giftis for. Here ishow to gift moneyin various circ*mstances:

Weddings

It’s always been the tradition for the bride’s family to pay for the wedding, but times havechangedand parents shouldn’t feel pressured into footing the substantial bill that comes with their children getting married. However, if you do want yourcash giftto go towards the happy event, make sure you are open and clear if there are any conditions that will apply to avoidmisunderstandings. If you want to be involved and help with the wedding planning, let your family know as well.

Keep in mind that how much you can gift at a wedding also has tax implications. Depending on your relationship, you can give money tax-free up to a certain amount:

Parents can give up to £5,000
Grandparents can give up to £2,500
Other friends and family members can give up to £1,000

Always speak to a financial adviser about your specific financial and tax situation.

House deposit

One of themostcommonways to give money as a giftis towards helping your family members get on the property ladder.Arecent reportby the London School of Economics found that the Bank of Mum and Dad is the sixthbiggest mortgage lender in the country, with over £6 billion being gifted from parents to children across UK last year.

Even though giving money to children is common practice, it’s still a topic many parents find difficult to approach. The best thing to do is makingsure you have an honest conversation about how much money they need, how much you can offer and if it’s a loan,what interest you want to charge.The conversation might seem like a business meeting instead of a familyget-together,but rememberthe aim is toreassure everyone involved that their needs are taken care of.

Another importantdecision to make when it comes to offering afinancial giftfor a house deposit is what should happen if the house gets sold at some point in the future. Keep a record of the conversation to make everyone’s life easier in case there is confusionlater ondown the line.

Find out more aboutgifting money for a house depositwith our easy-to-follow guide.

Buying a car

If you want to help a loved one payfor abig purchase like acar, therearea fewways to give money as a gifttohelp out.One option is to provide afinancial giftthat goes towards paying for the caritself. But don’t forget there will be other expenses that come with owning a vehicle, including insurance, maintenance and fuel. Depending on the circ*mstances, a better arrangement could be a recurring monthly payment that helps them with the on-going costs of car ownership. Discuss all the options with your family member to make sure you’re choosing the best solution for their needs.

Education

With tuition fees on the rise and expensive costsof living, parents and grandparents will oftenwantto help their younger family memberstoget the best possible start in life by offering a financial gift for attending university. Many parents have alreadyplanned aheadand started saving early on, so when the time comes,they’re financially ready to offer their support.

Even if you plan to offer your children or grandchildren a financial gift towards going to university, it’s important to know all the money options they’ve got available, including university loans, government loans and government grants. University comes with hefty bills, so if you feel like you might not be able to support your young family membersby yourself, consider asking other family members to contribute, either with a loan or a money gift. They are likely to be excited to help. In caseyou are not sure how to broach the topic, we put together a few handy tipsin our articleReceivingmoneygifts from parentsand other family members.

The importance of talking to an adviser when giving afinancial gift

Whether you want to give money as a gift or as a loan, to a family member or a friend, it’s important to consider talking to an adviser first. Contact them early on as you start thinking about how to gift money and discuss openly how you wish to proceed. Professional advice is key in making sure you are taking care of the loved ones to the best of your financial ability, while looking after yourself as well. Here are a few questions a financial adviser will help answer:

How much can you afford to give?
How much you will lose out in interest on savings?
Can you afford to give the money as a gift, or is offering a loan a better option?
What to include in a loan agreement?
How much can you giftbefore you start paying inheritance taxes?
What are the tax liabilities for everyone involved?

If possible, ask the family member or friend you’re trying to help to join in as well. The more open the conversation, the easier will be to plan outa financial gift that offers the maximum benefits to you and your loved ones.Plus, you’ll have peace of mind talking to a knowledgeable specialist offering you their best advice.

In conclusion, if you’re thinking abouthow to gift money, how much money to gift and how to navigate the money conversation in a successful way, the key is to be prepared, open and clear to avoid misunderstandings. Add the professional help of an advisoron top of itand you’ve got a bulletproof strategy that offers your family the support they need in the least stressful way possible.

Next, find outhow togift money tax-freeand how to avoid hefty tax bills by planning things in advance.

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