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Moving on is difficult! We have all been there. But once you move on, you are always certain to never go back, right? They left you or you left them, it all is in the destiny, what do you think? I, for one, am a person who believes that whatever happens, happens for our own good. And
is not just about
or any rebound or just moving on. It is a lot deeper than we think. A relationship requires your entire investment. And by investment we mean emotionally and physically.
No matter what, how desperately you want your ex-partner to be back in your life, you always should remember some facts and points before giving them a second chance. Read to find out.
- Why is that person coming back in your life now?
If it’s over, then there is no reason for them to come back to you. If they are coming back to you and asking for a second chance, think about the reason and ask yourself this question until and unless your soul is satisfied with the answer.
- What was the reason for breakup?
If you broke up with them or they broke up with you, it would be for a reason only. And when two people, who love each other, call it off, there is a major reason behind it that you or they cannot overcome it.
- Don’t just believe the words, observe the body language and expressions:
You would be knowing that people are good at lying straight on your face. So never just believe the words. You know, the better way to believe or not to believe someone is by observing their body gestures and expressions. It is said in psychology that a person can never lie through their body language. If they aren’t confident, or maintaining the eye contact, or fidgeting a lot, they are not the ones to be believed. Don’t build another red flag for yourself.
- Were you two serious in the relationship? And what is the level of seriousness?
See, there has to be a level of seriousness in a relationship. If you two weren’t serious they don’t have any reason to come back. Manage the level according to you because you cannot bow down easily. It took all the strength in you to be your own self after the toxicity.
- Can you still trust them?
One of the major reasons for a breakup other than compatibility is trust. If they left you once, what is the guarantee that they won’t leave again? So the question is, can you genuinely trust them? If yes, think about it. If no, then you have your answer.
- Do you still feel something for them or you are over them?
One of the most difficult things to do is move on from someone you loved immensely. But after you break up with them, it is a tough choice to make if you have oved on from them or not. If your
is asking for a second chance, ask yourself if you still love them or not. Because if you have moved on, there is no way you should go back to them. NEVER COMPROMISE!
- Can you two adjust with each other now?
There is no relationship with a compromise. So there is no call for adjustments, what is your say? Yes, adjusting in love is a different thing, but only if you are willing to. But if you have to adjust for the sake of others, call it off before you start!
These were some of our observations which we wanted to share with you! Do share your experiences with us as well!
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