8 Ways To Start Over In A New City (2024)

Moving to an entirely new city as an adult is both exciting and challenging. There are so many new things to experience, but in many ways, it may feel like you're also starting over from scratch. That's why it helps to have a plan, and you can start with our guide to 8 ways that you can start over in a new city.

1. Scout Your City Before You Arrive
   Starting over in a new city is much simpler when you have an idea of what to expect ahead of time, so be sure to scout out your new city long before it's time to make your move. Find out where essential services are located, check out attractions you might visit for fun, and sample the local dining scene.
2. Work with an Experienced Real Estate Agent
   Handling the logistics of your move and getting to know your new city is a lot easier when you have an experienced real estate agent you can trust for guidance. You want an agent who makes life as easy as possible while moving and who knows the community.
3. Make Yourself a Regular
   Once you arrive, find a few favorite coffee/dining/nightlife spots where you can make yourself a regular. Get to know the staff, talk to other regular customers, and look for new opportunities to build relationships. Before you know it, you'll have a comfortable hangout where "everybody knows your name."
4. Don't Be Afraid to Say "Yes"
   It's easy to say "no" when somebody in your new city asks you to try something new but do your best to resist the temptation. Say "yes" to new opportunities to connect with people, even if they invite you to something that normally might not be "your thing."
5. Be Aggressive in Searching for New Friends
   Making new friends as an adult can be a challenge, but the most important step is putting yourself out there with a willingness to meet new people. Whether you're chatting with people from work, at your new, regular hangout, or anywhere else in the city, be aggressive about making new friends.
6. Find a Job That Fits Your Needs
   Finding the right job is naturally a huge priority for anyone making a move to a new place because a job means financial security and new social opportunities. A job provides a reliable schedule for each day and helps you build a comfortable routine in your new home.
7. Don't Be Ashamed to Act Like a Tourist
   It may seem strange to act like a tourist in a place you now call home, but everybody starts as a tourist when living in a new location. Don't be afraid to get out and explore, take in all of the local attractions, and search for out-of-the-way hidden gems just like you would on vacation.
8. Keep Trying New Things Even After You're Comfortable in Your New Home
   If you follow our tips and your plan, then you'll soon start feeling comfortable in your new home city. Just don't let that stop you from exploring and trying new things. There should be plenty more to experience in your new city, even after you're comfortable with the basics.

Every person — and city — is unique, but starting over in a new town doesn't have to be a mystery. By exploring the community, building new relationships, being open-minded to new experiences, and learning as you go, you can quickly start to make your new city feel like home.